I understand what you're saying. Most of the time I prefer someone to help get me off also, but mutual masturbation with a friend can be very hot. My ejaculation is more intense when I cum with a friend. 🔥
A bit if everything. Playing with each other's cocks, sucking, and a bit disappointing they ended up pulling themselves off. I'd prefer someone pulled or sucked me off. Only do it if I'm desperate, but if I had someone to do it then I wouldn't.